How to Ask for a Letter of Recommendation

Asking for a letter of recommendation can be tricky sometimes. Ask yourself the questions below to help determine who you should ask to write you a letter. 

• Can this person talk about my potential for college/scholarship?
• Have I known this person long enough?
• Can they write me a detailed letter? 

Once you've asked yourself these questions and determined who you will ask for a letter. Ask them in person if possible, if not send them an email! Remember the following. 

• Be personal about the ask 

  • Why do you want them to write this letter? Why is it significant to you? 

• If they say yes send them the following: 

  • What the recommendation is for

  • An up-to-date resume

  • Relevant work habits, academic successes, or skills (Take a look at the brag sheet resource!) 

  • Requested due date (if needed) and where to send the recommendation

• They don't have to say yes. 

  • If you are met with someone who is unable to write you a letter, it's okay! 

    • Tell them thank you regardless

    • Begin to look for other recommenders

Once they've written your letter remember to say thank you! This can be a simple notecard, letter, or email. Just remember to showcase appreciation for this person. 

Letter of Recommendation Resources 

• Brag Sheet Template
  • While you don't need to write a brag sheet, it can be helpful to have all of your interests, accomplishments, etc. on one page in order to make writing a letter easier. 
• How to Request Letters of Recommendation 
  • Check out the ACT's tips on asking for a letter of recommendation.